Ever been to the store and seen a child being talked to poorly by their parent?
Ever seen a mother constantly yelling for every little thing?
Ever seen a teacher correct a student, but doesn't explain why?
I think I can go on and on about the communication amongst a child and a adult. Haim's quote was introduced to me in a behavior training about how students in our classroom need to be treated as children. At first I disagreed , but as my child grow up the age I started to change my opinion. Students in my class mess up, I try my hardest to not yell the first time. I think it is important to walk over and get down to their level and explain the problem and help them to improve. I can admit my child is in her two's. I yell at her quite often, but that approach does not work like it used to and I had to change my ways. I have to hold my students to the same standard I want my daughter to understand that anything she wants to do that she can do.
Students have it hard at home, and as teachers I think we shouldn't add more on to their plate? (Slang)
It feels weird saying don't add more to a child, because they are a child. Yet, children are faced with earlier situations than we were growing up. Parents work more, so many single family households, and income is a major strain on families.
In one of my past classes their was this story about a teacher who always gave smiley faces on all papers that reflected a poor grade. The reason why is that their is always room for growth, and sometimes students need to be reminded that they can do better!!!!